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Weekend Reflections for 10/13/17

God’s Invitation

In both the Old and New Testaments we find the action of “breaking bread together”, sharing a meal, as a sign of intimate, loving union. Jesus is judged and criticized for eating with sinners, for sharing life with them. In today’s Gospel passage Jesus tells the parable of the king who invites people to the wedding feast for his son. Those invited refused to come so the king had his servants bring in whoever was passing by on the road. Now the hall was filled with guests and the feast could begin. The invited guests are the chosen who reject Jesus and refuse to believe him and his message. The feast is the fullness of the kingdom of God, heaven where all enjoy loving union with God and one another.

In our baptism God gave us a standing invitation to His banquet, to share a meal at the Eucharist and enjoy the feast of His kingdom. Let us not be deaf to His call but quick to respond in making loving choices, in putting our priorities in order, in knowing what is truly important and worthwhile. Then we will be able to sit down and enjoy the meal and the companionship.

Fr. Ralph Huse, S.J.

Weekend Reflections for 10/6/17

God's Expectations

"Finally, he sent his son to them, thinking 'They will respect my son.'" (Mt 21:37) 

God expected the leaders of His chosen people to recognize and welcome His son, but their hearts were hardened and their eyes blinded. They rejected, condemned and executed Jesus. But "the stone rejected by the builders has become the cornerstone." God raised His son from death to glory. 

What does God expect of you and me? Like any good parent He wants His love for us to be acknowledged and gratefully received. He wants to be thanked for His care for us, the many blessings He showers on us. He wants to be at least a part of our lives. St. Ignatius wrote that we can speak to our Lord "as one friend speaks to another." Do I trust God and myself enough to consider Him my best friend who is always close by and eager to hear from me and about me? Can I both speak and listen as I acknowledge my Lord and my God?

-Ralph Huse, S.J.




Weekend Reflections for 9/29/17

Second Chances

“Jesus said to the chief priests and elders of the people: …’Amen, I say to you, tax collectors and prostitutes are entering the kingdom of God before you.’”  (Mt 21:31)

In Sunday’s Gospel Jesus is very stern with the religious authorities of his day because they are justifying themselves by using the law to their advantage, to excuse themselves. He uses the parable of the two sons to confront their behavior. They are giving lip service but not following through with their choices and actions. He contrasts them with the public sinners whose life choices have said No to God but then acknowledged and owned their sins and repented, began living a Yes to God.

We’ve all had the experience of turning down someone’s request of us and then having second thoughts. Maybe it was the look of disappointment on their face or our habit of trying to please others or guilt. Maybe it was the Holy Spirit giving us another second chance to get it right, letting us know that we actually can be that generous with our time and talents. Our loving God is always at work in and through us, nudging us to be more loving, more forgiving, more generous than we can be by ourselves. God always gives us another chance, a second or third or fourth, however many we need.

Ralph Huse, S.J.


Weekend Reflections for 9/22/17

This Sunday's Gospel (about the laborers who work from dawn to dusk receiving the same payment as those who work for only one hour) certainly offends our sensibilities regarding justice--until we take a closer look.

What we often forget are the families dependent upon the men looking for work all day.  The owner asks the men why they have not been working and they explain that they have tried everything possible but have been unsuccessful.  They would love to work!

This situation repeats itself daily in our country.  I've witnessed it many times outside of Home Depot in Houston.  Men wait for a truck to drive up and run to be the first to offer their services to the farmer or employer who drives up.  What if that employer kept the man's family in mind?  Might he or she, in mercy, offer a full day's wage for the sake of the man's hungry family members at home?  

Perhaps we gain here a new sense of what Scripture means when it says Mercy triumphs over Justice/Judgment.  Correspondingly, Pope Benedict reminds us that employers ought to help ensure "the right to a just wage and to the personal security of the worker and his or her family" (Caritas in Veritate, 63).

Fr. Anthony Wieck, S.J.



Upcoming Retreats:

Men: 9/25, 9/28, 10/9, 10/12

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Weekend Reflections for 9/15/17

Forgiveness is not a duty.  It is a gift.  A duty is regularly performed by our own strength.  We don't have the strength to forgive.  The sooner we admit that the better.  

Peter approaches Jesus in this Sunday's Gospel and asks how often must he forgive the offense of his brother (poor Andrew :)  Even seven times, a number of fullness?   Jesus overwhelms him with his answer:  "Not seven times but seventy-seven times" [or seventy times seven, as some translations have it].  Peter is rather deflated with the answer.  He doesn't have that kind of forgiveness in him.  Nor do we.

So Jesus proceeds to tell a parable outlining where one receives the ability to let go of the offenses of our brother/sister early and often.  "A king decided to settle accounts with his servants...[and] a debtor was brought before him who owed him a huge amount."  That debtor would be you and I, perfectly described here, before the King of kings.

The king, upon seeing our homage and our prayer for mercy, "...moved with compassion let him go...and forgave him the loan."  THERE is the source of our mercy towards others!  We have to receive it from God.  We have to beg for it first.   Then we will see our offending sister or brother with the eyes of God.  Then we will experience God forgiving them through us.

Our obligation then is not to forgive others "seventy-seven times" by our own strength, but rather to beg God regularly for his forgiving strength to work in and through us toward the one who has offended us over and over.  "Whatever you ask the Father in my name will be given you."

Weekend Reflections for 9/8/17

Perhaps one of the hardest things we have to do in this life is "fraternal correction."  Scripture speaks of its importance.  Jesus exhorts us to it in this Sunday's Gospel.  Certainly we would prefer to follow the world's mantras: "Don't judge the actions of another" and "Live and let live", for there is no possible conflict that way...  But Jesus instructs us otherwise, "Go and tell [your brother] his fault." (Mt 18:15)

St. Ignatius, at the beginning of his Spiritual Exercises, adds some important qualifiers to balanced fraternal correction.  In what he calls the Presupposition, he writes,

"...Let it be presupposed that every good Christian is to be more ready to save his neighbor's proposition than to condemn it. If he cannot save it, let him inquire how he means it; and if he means it badly, let him correct him with charity. If that is not enough, let him seek all the suitable means to bring him to mean it well, and save himself."

Correction does need to happen, for the love we have toward others.  But we must avoid a simple condemnation of the words or opinions of others.  Instead we should search carefully for the inner truth of their statement or expression, and hold on to that truth, and help them discard the rest.  If we can't find some truth to hold on to, we are to ask what they intend by it.  Give them an explanatory chance!  And if they are still holding on to something in error, we are to correct them, but always and only in charity.  This will lead them gently towards the truth that we ourselves are trying to follow.

Why all these qualifiers?  Perhaps St. Ignatius realized, as Our Lord did long before him, that we tend to want to put people on the defensive when we don't agree with them, to "win a battle".  This is not living charity on our part.  Truth, however, is never something we contain or control or can use as a club to "win a battle", but rather something we reverence, something beyond us, that we point to. Indeed truth is a person, the Second Person of the Trinity.  

May we always point beyond ourselves to the Truth.  And may these be the distinguishing marks of our fraternal correction: charity and humility.

Fr. Anthony Wieck, S.J.



Upcoming Retreats:

Women: 10/2,11/13

Men: 9/14, 9/18, 9/21, 9/25, 9/28

Weekend Reflections for 9/1/17

The Christian life is full of paradoxes. We must die in order to live. If we tap into our heart's desire to be a disciple, we must first deny ourselves. To follow Jesus in glory we must learn to suffer in love. 

This Sunday's Gospel is an exhortation to love, but in paradox form. Love, St. Ignatius tells us, is a mutual sharing of gifts, where the lover shares with the beloved. Jesus wishes, in love, to share his cross with you and me. Certainly it is not because it's too heavy for him to bear alone. Rather the cross strengthens our own spiritual muscles. It teaches us love, altruistic love focused on the good of the other. It teaches us intimacy as we experience just what Jesus experienced. The greatest danger of the cross is to think we are bearing it alone however. We never walk alone in bearing the cross. It is always with Jesus. 

Let us reflect this week on intimacy gained through suffering, thinking about a pregnant mother, a father who works extra hours for the love of his family, and those in Houston and surrounding areas who are diving in to suffer with and help those who have been devastated by the damages brought about by the hurricane. May we too allow the cross to be experienced as something joyful, with Jesus.

Fr. Anthony Wieck, S.J.

Weekend Reflections for 8/25/17

“Who do people say that I am?”

Jesus asked this question at a critical point in his public life and preaching.  A political commentator today might say that Jesus had reached his peak of popularity and it was now on the decline.  The early enthusiasm of those who followed him was wanning.  There was growing opposition from some religious leaders; some followers were beginning to question aspects of his teaching, and some had given up on him and walked away.

Moreover, Jesus is about to tell them that “he was destined to go to Jerusalem and suffer grievously at the hands of the elders and chief priest and scribes, to be put to death and to be raised up on the third day.”

So he wants to know where his inner circle of disciples are with regard to him.  Are they ready to enter into a more profound and deeper relationship with him?  Are they committed enough and faithful enough to stay with him not only in good times but also in difficult times and in the bad times of hostility and persecution which were even now coming.

They would not be able to do this unless they have a better and more correct understanding of who he is, and if they were not graced with a deeper faith and trust in him and in his word.  So Jesus asks his question, “Who do people say that the Son of Man is?”  Jesus wants them to deal with this issue, to confirm interiorly and out loud for themselves others who he is for them.

I believe each of us in our own way has to grapple with this question.  In fact, for believers I think it is perhaps the most important issue of our faith.   How we perceive and deal with this reality, how we understand and perceive this profound yet wonderful mystery sets the stage, lays the groundwork and foundation for all, or practically all, other considerations of our faith life.  May we be blessed with the grace and insight that Peter received. 





The Eclipse - August 21, 2017

Students and staff from Loyola Academy along with about 50 friends of White House visited our campus on August 21st to view the eclipse.  We managed to get some nice footage and Fr. Anthony Wieck, SJ added some very inspirational words to the day.

Weekend Reflections for 8/18/17

What can change Jesus’ mind?

In Sunday’s gospel in the cure of the Canaanite mother we see Jesus changing his mind, we in this see him implicitly admitting a misconception, and as a result we see Jesus learning more about himself and his mission.

Jesus was a faithful, practicing Jew.  He regularly attended the synagogue and was familiar with much of the Old Testament writings, including the Pentateuch, the books of Isaiah, Ezekiel and other prophets, and of course the Psalms. From all of this he knew that his people were awaiting a Messiah, an anointed one who would free them from their servitude to the Romans and their current, Idumaean political rulers. This longed-far anointed one would one day be re-established them as a nation, as a kingdom.  Somehow they, as a people, would become the channel of God's life and salvation for all peoples (a light to the gentiles).

In today’s gospel we have Jesus’ initial understanding of the role of the anointed one. He first was to minister and serve the Israelites and then afterwards the non-Jewish peoples.  And so Jesus initially refuses to grant the request of the Canaanite woman.  The time for ministering to non-Jews had not yet come.

But there is one power that Jesus has to pay attention to, and, as it were, he cannot resist. It is the great faith of the mother. In antithesis I am reminded of Jesus first visit to his native town. Because of the Nazarenes lack of faith he was not able to act very well on their behalf. But here with the Canaanite woman, because of her great faith, he has to reconsider his role and mission and then to act on her behalf.

Last week in one of the weekday Gospels Jesus told his disciples that with their faith they could even move mountains. And in today’s gospel we see Jesus being moved by Canaanite mother’s faith to reassess and refocus the mission given to him by his Father.

Too often I simply take my faith for granted, and I do not appreciate what a great gift it is. This gospel, along with many other Scripture passages, reminds me that it is also a great power is in my life, and it is never to be taken for granted.

Weekend Reflections for 8/11/17

Encountering Jesus

In what circumstances and manner does God come to us, speak to us?  In the movie, Out of Africa, there is a terrible fire which destroys much of the work of the heroines' endeavors on behalf of the indigenous people with whom she lives. When one of her servants comes to wake her and inform her of this disaster, he begins by saying, "God is calling."

A few weeks ago in the daily Scripture readings we often heard how God appeared to Moses and the Israelites in their journey out of Egypt and into the desert. God was present to them in a dense cloud often accompanied by peals of thunder and lightning and even a very loud trumpet blast. The mountain from which God revealed himself was like a smoking, erupting volcano.

In today's first reading the prophet Isaiah radically changes the circumstances of God's presence. The Lord is experienced in a quiet, gentle breeze, and not in fire or an earthquake. St. Ignatius of Loyola uses similar terms in describing experiences of God for persons progressing in the spiritual life. In his guidelines for understanding and distinguishing certain spontaneous thoughts and feelings as coming from God or are from the spirit of evil,  he describes the touch of the spirit of God as being very delicate, gentle and often delightful, or like a drop of water penetrating a sponge. 

In today's Gospel Jesus comes to the disciples in a threatening storm, walking on the water.  So we see that God comes to us, speaks to us, in the manner God chooses, in the manner more beneficial for us.  Jesus perhaps alludes to this in John's Gospel, 3,8,  "The wind blows where it wishes, and you hear its sound, but you do not know where it comes from or where it goes. So it is with everyone who is born of the Spirit."

What is important is that in so far as possible we be alert, watching and receptive to God's mysterious presence in our midst.  It can be in any situation or circumstance.  We cannot typecast the Spirit or tie it down to only certain kinds of circumstances.  But we can ready, alert, openand receptive.

-Fr. Jim Blumeyer, SJ



Weekend Reflection for 8/4/17

When Jesus was transfigured the three disciples were in turn amazed, overwhelmed, frightened and probably confused by what had occurred. To compound this Jesus’ only comment is for them not to discuss this with anyone until after he has risen from the dead. How that must’ve left them even more perplexed.  I have wondered why why so many places and Scriptures we find this event. My conclusion is that Jesus Transfiguration happened primarily for Jesus’ benefit and not the disciples.

The Transfiguration event is akin to that of Jesus’ baptism. In both instances His Father is confirming and consoling and preparing Jesus for what he is doing and is about to do. At the time of his Transfiguration Jesus is about to journey to Jerusalem where he will suffer his passion and death. This is a time when Jesus most certainly needs confirmation, just as he needed reassurance  at his baptism when about to embark upon his public life and preaching.

What does this say to you and me? Recall that St. Paul tells us that Jesus is like us in all things except for sin and these incidents present excellent examples of this. At his baptism Jesus is setting out on a way of life he is almost totally unfamiliar with. No wonder he will spend some time with John and his disciples. With them he will discover how to nurture disciples, how to gather crowds, how to preach to them, how to deal with people react in many different ways, favorable and hostile, to the message that he proclaims. Similarly, going up to Jerusalem, the stronghold of his bitter enemies, some of whom have either tried or vowed to destroy him, demands of Jesus and incredible determination and courage.

And so as Jesus considers this and prays about it, his Father touches him in a most unique way telling him that he is doing the right thing and does this in a manner that confirms for him the incredible outcomes that will result from all of this. What a blessed and wonderful experience the Transfiguration is for Jesus.

Jesus, like us, seeks and needs in the most difficult and mysterious moments of his life his Father’s affirmation and encouragement that He is indeed doing his father’s will. We too need this and we too should seek this.

-Fr. Jim Blumeyer, S.J.


Weekend Reflections for 7/28/17

Walking “Wisely Ignorant” with the Pilgrim Saint

As “Ignatian Theologian” and first generation Jesuit Fr. Jerome Nadal, S. J. (1507-1580) described his way of proceeding, ‘Ignatius was following the spirit, he was not running ahead of it. And yet he was being led gently, whither he didn’t know. He was not intending at that time to found the order. Little by little, though, the road was opening up before him and he was moving along it, wisely ignorant, with his heart placed very simply in Christ’.

The image above comes from my time of ministry in the country of “The Mission,” where in the 17th and 18th centuries Jesuits help “reduce” or “lead back” the native Guarani peoples into small communities or “reductions” to protect them from exploitation and slavery and to cultivate their wonderful talents. Their gifts for the arts were evident in all of their wonderful crafts, especially architecture and sculpture, some of which remains until this day, as does this life sized statue of Ignatius in San Ignacio de Misiones, Paraguay.

To me, this image of Ignatius says so much about his spirit of discernment, always seeking God’s way on his pilgrimage that eventually led to his founding the Society of Jesus.

As we celebrate Ignatius’ feast day on July 31, may we ask for the grace of being “wisely ignorant” ourselves as we too are a pilgrim people seeking God’s guiding Spirit on our own pilgrim journeys. The Spiritual Exercises Ignatius experienced and wrote down in his little pilgrimage guidebook offer us ways to cultivate wise ignorance for our own pilgrim journeys. You are always welcome to continue your own pilgrimage, wisely ignorant, by joining us at

White House Jesuit Retreat.

Edward B. "Ted" Arroyo, S.J.


Weekend Reflection for 7/14/17

How does your garden grow?

Our ministry at White House Jesuit Retreat is all about spiritual growth, like those seeds in Sunday's gospel.

The seed is the word of God. The challenge for us is to hear the word of God, to truly listen. This is the way growth takes place, especially in the silence of a White House retreat.

How does such growth take place in us?

The first reading for Sunday, from the Prophet Isaiah points to the natural cycles of God's creation, perhaps often unknown to us, and sometimes uncontrollable by us.

I believe that the secret to growth is intimately tied into the mystery of God's wonderful creation,

creation for us, for our nourishment, for our sharing with all.

AND God's promise is that this growth will come to fruition, it will succeed by God's co-creative grace.

In Sunday's second reading, St. Paul reminds us that creation is groaning for growth - often suffering can lead to growth, if we know how to cultivate it through grace.

As the gospel says, unless the grain of wheat falls into the grown and dies, it does not grow.

But if it dies and is buried in the soil, it can undergo tremendous growth and bear much fruit.

Isn't this true for us praying the Spiritual Exercises repeatedly, maybe even more than 50 times in our lives?

Perhaps we can ask ourselves, as creation groans for growth

1) How do I participate in that creation?

2) Is it for growth that I groan?

3) How do I groan for growth?

4) What fruit do I long for?

Making the Spiritual Exercises is great soil preparation.

Our role is to listen, and if we grow in listening to the word, God's promise is that the growth will truly be tremendous. Let anyone with ears listen!


Edward B. "Ted" Arroyo, S.J.







Upcoming Retreats with Space:

Women: 10/2, 10/16

Men: 7/27, 8/17, 8/24

Co-Ed Recovery 8/10

Co-Ed: 9/1



Everyone is invited to join us for a mass celebrating 

St. Ignatius on Monday July 31st at 7:30am at SLUH (4970 Oakland Ave).  Coffee and donuts will be served following mass.

Weekend Reflections for 7/7/17

Wandering Arameans, Aliens, You and I.

At the roots of our faith history is this declaration in the book of Deuteronomy (26:5-7) "You shall declare before the Lord your God, 'my father was a wandering Aramean who went down to Egypt with a small household and lived there as an alien. But there he became a nation great, strong and numerous. When the Egyptians maltreated and oppressed us, imposing hard labor upon us, we cried to the Lord, the God of our ancestors, who heard our cry and saw our affliction, our toil and our oppression'."

Our recent liturgical bible readings from the book of Genesis remind us again about God's special care for people on the move, as we accompany Abraham and Sarah in their faith journeys, and they too welcome three mysterious strangers and show them hospitality (Gen 18:1-8).

Welcoming the alien stranger is a recurrent theme calling us believers to acknowledge that in some ways we too are itinerants on the move, no matter how firmly planted we may feel in our well-appointed family houses or condos.  Abraham and Sarah struggled to trust God on their journey, and they even put up blockages to God's plans for them.

At times we too may lack this basic trust

in our wanderings toward our promised land.

The Spiritual Exercises we offer at White House Jesuit Retreat provide tools for discerning God's many calls to us as we too travel through life's journeys as people on the move, not matter how stable our current domiciles may seem.

May God grant us too the grace of fidelity to all of the Spirit's movements in our own lives and situations,

showing hospitality to the strangers around us and

 sometimes being those wandering Arameans ourselves!

Edward B. "Ted" Arroyo, S.J. 



Upcoming Retreats with Space:

Women: 9/11, 10/2, 10/16

Men: 7/13, 7/27, 8/17, 8/24

Co-Ed Recovery 8/10

Co-Ed: 9/1

Weekend Reflections for 6/23/17

12th Sunday in Ordinary Time

Psalm 69 - Responsory, "Lord, in your great love, answer me."

The psalm gets overlooked in the Mass readings, even though they are the very prayers that the Lord Jesus used and that from the days of the disciples we have heard the voice of Jesus in the psalms. This one is used in the accounts the Passion as it gives voice to the suffering of an innocent person.

It's a lament, a passionate expression of grief, often suffering and colored with anger. It demands that God do something, now! The psalmist complains of alienation from God and rehearsed a litany of estrangement from family, community and justice. "Save me, God," the speaker demands, "I am weary with crying out; / My throat is parched, / My eyes fail, / From looking for my God." I've had it, do something and do it quick, God.

There are times I feel that distress in an urgent moment and Jesus too could give voice to such an insistent demand for God's action and in a tone more than tinged with anger. Often repeating a verse of a psalm like this one can express those deep emotions that rise up in relationship with God.

Francis X. Ryan, SJ



Weekend Reflections for 6/16/17

Feast of the Body and Blood of the Lord, 2017

There's no such thing as a kiss. You can't put it under a glass on the mantle. It's first and foremost an action, one which re-presents the reality it signifies, and one which furthers, activates, and sustains by its realness.  It's reality is inseparably embedded in the material world. So too the Body and Blood of the Lord. The ultimate reality of Christ's death and resurrection is embedded in what was once bread and wine. It's before all else an action, a communion with the Divine, and with all those in Christ, the Living and those in glory. It transforms us into Christ who saves. It is the grateful eating and drinking of salvation which transforms us so that we become what we receive. We do well when we reverence the transformed elements because the great action of God in Christ is present there in matter, the eternal present in that which changes.

Francis X. Ryan, SJ

Weekend Reflections for 6/2/17

"Pentecost 2017

Acts 2:1-11

    While often repeating the comfortable assurances of God's abiding love, the scripture also rises up to challenge us. Often it is like a mirror held up before us so that we might check how we really appear, not just how we imagine we are.  At Pentecost, the Bible scholars point out, the strong wind blowing everyone together out of all the nations, the sudden ability to understand the reaching in the one language of the Spirit, is the reverse of the curse of Babel. We become one Body, one Spirit in Christ.  That is our true nationality, our common mother tongue. The nation of our natural birth no longer can claim our first allegiance or our primary loyalty. "America First" can be a retreat away from our allegiance pledged at Baptism and testified to at Confirmation. We profess each Sunday our belief in and our allegiance to "one, holy, universal, and apostolic church".

    - Francis X. Ryan, SJ


Weekend Reflections for 5/5/17

The Good Shepherd

“For you had gone astray like sheep, but you have now returned to the shepherd and guardian of your souls.”  (1 Peter 2:25)

The image of Jesus as the Shepherd is probably the most familiar in the Christian religion. It graphically portrays Jesus as our leader and protector, the One who gives his all for love of us. He desires our relationship with him to be one of intimacy; we hear him when he calls us by our name and we recognize his voice and ask for the grace to follow him.

There are times in all of lives when reality and our weaknesses can cause us pain and suffering, times when we know that we are not in control. How do we respond? Can we trust the Shepherd to lead us safely through the dark valley, knowing that he has already made that journey for us? One of my favorite brief prayers is to daily remind myself that nothing is going to happen today that the Lord and I can’t get through together.

Fr. Ralph Huse, S.J.